Meeting A Lot Of Women

Men ask me about " finding a woman " and "how to flirt with women " and other such topics incessantly .

Still honestly the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."

But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to approach women?"

You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the subject. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.

And when I wrote my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.

Above all, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.

And I am not talking about guys who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.

But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better awareness of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you are partial to, and what you like, and what kinds of folk like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.

It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.

Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and connected with them and ignored the rest.

Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.

But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable�" and "ideal"� and also regrettably most people normally continue this habit of hooking up with the first "acceptable"� person who comes along well into adulthood.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

You see there are many different kinds of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.

Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.

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